G.G.S. v. A.C.B.
Docket A-3315-24
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- Filed
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- New Jersey
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- New Jersey Superior Court Appellate Division
- Type
- Opinion
- Case type
- Family
- Disposition
- Reversed
- Docket
- A-3315-24
Appeal from a Family Part order dismissing a temporary restraining order and denying a final restraining order under the New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act
Summary
The Appellate Division reversed the Family Part's May 19, 2025 order that dismissed a temporary restraining order and denied a final restraining order (FRO) after a college student (plaintiff) proved defendant committed an acquaintance rape that included manual strangulation. The trial court credited the victim but denied an FRO based largely on lack of prior domestic violence between the parties and instead admonished the defendant informally. The appellate court held that the extreme physical force—sexual assault plus strangulation—was sufficiently egregious to require an FRO and that the court improperly downplayed the victim's best interests and the risk of future abuse.
Issues Decided
- Whether extreme physical force (acquaintance/date rape with manual strangulation) can alone justify entry of a final restraining order under the New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA) even where there is no prior history of domestic violence between the parties
- Whether a showing of risk of future abuse to obtain an FRO requires proof of immediate danger or whether the prospect of further abuse suffices
- Whether a trial court may rely on defendant's apparent remorse and informal admonition instead of entering an enforceable FRO when the victim faces foreseeable future contact
Court's Reasoning
The court explained that the PDVA seeks to provide maximum protection to domestic violence victims and that severe physical force—here, forcible sexual penetration combined with strangulation—constitutes coercive control that often makes an FRO "perfunctory and self-evident." The appellate panel held the trial court erred by treating lack of prior history and defendant's apologetic remarks as dispositive, and by requiring proof of immediate danger rather than recognizing that preventing "further abuse" may justify an FRO. Because the court credited the victim, found the assault and strangulation occurred, and acknowledged foreseeable future contact, an FRO was warranted.
Authorities Cited
- New Jersey Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA)N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35
- Silver v. Silver (two-part test for FRO need)387 N.J. Super. 120 (App. Div. 2006)
- Strangulation aggravated assault statuteN.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13); L. 2017, c. 240; L. 2021, c. 172, § 1
Parties
- Plaintiff
- G.G.S.
- Defendant
- A.C.B.
- Attorney
- Linwood H. Donelson III
- Attorney
- Keith A. Peterson
- Judge
- Susswein, J.A.D.
Key Dates
- Decision date
- 2026-05-05
- Hearing/Order date (trial court)
- 2025-05-19
- Submitted to appellate court
- 2026-01-27
What You Should Do Next
- 1
Remand compliance
The Family Part should enter the final restraining order consistent with the Appellate Division's ruling and make any necessary factual findings and written findings addressing statutory factors.
- 2
Victim safety planning
The plaintiff should contact victim services and local law enforcement to obtain guidance on enforcement and safety planning once the FRO is entered.
- 3
Consider prosecutorial or civil follow-up
Either party or the prosecutor may consider parallel criminal or civil remedies; the plaintiff should consult counsel about preserving evidence and coordinating with law enforcement.
- 4
Motion for certification (if desired)
If a party seeks further review, they should consult counsel about filing a petition for certification to the New Jersey Supreme Court within the required time and procedural rules.
Frequently Asked Questions
- What did the court decide?
- The appellate court reversed the Family Part and instructed the court to enter a final restraining order because the forcible sexual assault and strangulation justified protection despite no prior history between the parties.
- Who is affected by this decision?
- The parties to this case (the victim/plaintiff and the accused/defendant) are directly affected, and the opinion also guides Family Part judges and victims in similar domestic violence cases involving severe physical force.
- What happens next for the parties?
- The case is remanded to the Family Part for entry of an FRO consistent with the opinion; that order will be enforceable by police and may be used in future proceedings.
- On what legal grounds did the court require an FRO?
- The court relied on the PDVA and precedent holding that severe physical violence—especially strangulation and forcible sexual assault—can show the need to prevent further abuse even without a history of prior domestic incidents.
- Can this decision be appealed further?
- The appellate division reversed and remanded and did not retain jurisdiction; a party could seek review by the New Jersey Supreme Court by petition for certification, subject to that court's discretion.
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APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION
SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY
APPELLATE DIVISION
DOCKET NO. A-3315-24
G.G.S.,
Plaintiff-Appellant,
APPROVED FOR PUBLICATION
v. May 5, 2026
APPELLATE DIVISION
A.C.B.,
Defendant-Respondent.
________________________
Submitted January 27, 2026 – Decided May 5, 2026
Before Judges Sumners, Susswein and Augostini.
On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey,
Chancery Division, Family Part, Camden County,
Docket No. FV-04-2724-25.
Donelson, D'Alessandro & Peterson, LLC, attorneys
for appellant (Linwood H. Donelson III and Keith A.
Peterson, on the brief).
Respondent has not filed a brief.
The opinion of the court was delivered by
SUSSWEIN, J.A.D.
This appeal raises important questions under the New Jersey Prevention
of Domestic Violence Act (PDVA), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35, when the
predicate act of domestic violence involves egregious physical force—in this
instance, an acquaintance rape 1 involving manual strangulation. We address,
for example, the tension that can arise between two important principles that
inform the decision on whether to issue a final restraining order (FRO) under
the PDVA: first, that the trial court must consider whether the predicate act
was part of a pattern of historical domestic violence involving the parties; and
second, that the need for an FRO is often "perfunctory and self-evident" when
the predicate act involves physical violence, especially when the unlawful
force is severe.
In this instance, we accord greater significance to the egregiousness of
the physical force inflicted upon the victim than to the fact that there was no
history of past acts of domestic violence between the parties. The forcible date
rape, in other words, was sufficiently egregious to warrant an FRO
notwithstanding that it was the first and only act of domestic violence
defendant perpetrated against the victim. We add that the sexual violence
committed in this case constitutes an archetypical example of the degree of
1
In State in Interest of M.T.S., our Supreme Court explained that this type of
nonconsensual sexual assault "is often referred to as 'acquaintance rape.'" 129
N.J. 422, 425 (1992). The term "date rape" is also used in common parlance to
describe a forcible sexual assault committed against a person with whom the
actor has a dating relationship.
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coercive control and domination that triggers the PDVA's protections. We
likewise consider strangulation to be an act of control and domination that by
itself will often justify the entry of an FRO even when it does not result in
serious or significant bodily injury.
Aside from addressing the legal impact of the egregiousness of the
physical force that was inflicted upon the victim in this case, we also consider
the "immediacy" of future harm that must be shown to warrant an FRO.
Although a plaintiff seeking an FRO under the PDVA must establish the need
for protection from further abuse, the foreseeable abuse need not be imminent
and the risk of it coming to fruition should be assessed in the context of
considering the victim's best interests. The best-interests-of-the-victim factor
is an important consideration, one that must be applied as part of a
comprehensive statutory framework designed to afford domestic violence
victims the maximum protection from abuse the law can provide. In cases like
this one where future contact between the parties is foreseeable, a victim of
extreme physical violence has a right to be assured that the assailant's conduct
during any future encounter will be constrained by the terms of an enforceable
judicial order—one that can be presented to police if needed—and not just an
informal oral warning from the judge as occurred in this case.
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Plaintiff, G.G.S., 2 appeals a May 19, 2025, Family Part order dismissing
a temporary restraining order (TRO) against defendant, A.C.B., and denying
plaintiff's request for an FRO against him. The parties had a one-week dating
relationship that ended abruptly when defendant overpowered and sexually
penetrated plaintiff despite her repeated protests. While pinning plaintiff
down, defendant placed his hands on her neck, impairing her ability to breathe.
The trial court credited plaintiff's testimony, finding there was a dating
relationship, that defendant committed the predicate act of sexual assault, and
that he placed his hands on plaintiff's neck four or five times, affecting her
breathing. The court described the violent episode as "despicable." It also
noted that defendant had "predatory tendencies" and found plaintiff's
testimony credible, stating, "I think she's scared, I think she's legitimate."
The court nonetheless concluded that plaintiff had not established the
grounds for an FRO, holding that plaintiff had not demonstrated that an FRO
was necessary to protect her from "immediate danger." In reaching that
conclusion, the court relied on the lack of a previous history of domestic
violence between the parties. The court also commented, "I think that
2
We use initials to protect the confidentiality of the victim in these
proceedings. R. 1:38-3(d)(10).
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[defendant] understands that that's not the kind of conduct of how a man
should treat a woman."
Despite denying plaintiff's request for an FRO, the court at the
conclusion of the hearing admonished defendant to stay away from plaintiff,
telling him, "You understand that when you see her around in the fall, you're
going to turn the other way. You're not to talk to her. You're not to look at
her. You're not to do anything." The court added, "Do you understand the
break you got today?"
We believe that the trial court's colloquy with defendant at the end of the
hearing contradicts its ruling that an FRO was not needed to protect the victim.
Its final remark suggesting defendant was given a "break," moreover,
disregards the interests of the victim and thus runs afoul of the letter and spirit
of the PDVA. Although we generally defer to Family Part judges, on these
disturbing facts we are constrained to reverse and remand for entry of an FRO.
I.
FACTS AND PROCEDURAL HISTORY
We discern the following facts and procedural history from the record.
The parties, both college students, were introduced by a mutual friend on
February 26, 2025. Their first date was on March 1. A second date took place
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on March 4, when the parties went bowling and then returned to defendant's
parents' house, where he lived at the time.
That night, the parties "made out" on defendant's bed. Plaintiff told
defendant that she did not intend to "sleep with" him because she was
practicing celibacy. Defendant repeatedly asked plaintiff why she would not
have sex with him and pressured her to reconsider. Plaintiff testified that on
that night, she told defendant "no" approximately seventeen times.
Defendant apologized for his behavior by text later that night. Plaintiff
replied the following day, letting defendant know that she felt uncomfortable
about the night before. Defendant replied that he "fe[lt] like an asshole" and
was "sorry for what [he] did." After the parties' mutual friend convinced
plaintiff to give defendant another chance, plaintiff agreed to meet defendant
at a public park the next day, March 6.
At that meeting, plaintiff reiterated that defendant's conduct during the
second date made her uncomfortable and she reaffirmed that she was
practicing celibacy. Defendant was understanding, and plaintiff agreed to go
out with him a third time the following evening.
At around 10:30 p.m. on March 7, defendant picked plaintiff up from her
home for a third date. Plaintiff wore "granny panties" and "baggy pajamas,"
which, she explained at trial, was deliberate to underscore that she did not
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intend to have sexual intercourse with defendant. The parties went to
defendant's parents' house, and plaintiff lay down to go to sleep, as she had to
be at work at 6:00 a.m. the next morning. Defendant became angry that
plaintiff "just came there to sleep," and after he protested, she agreed to watch
a movie.
Defendant began to pressure plaintiff to have sex with him, stating that
plaintiff "owed him" for their previous dates and that she should "ask [her]
friends what they do for . . . their partners." Plaintiff reiterated seven to ten
times that she did not want to have sex.
Eventually, plaintiff and defendant began "making out" on defendant's
bed. Plaintiff took off defendant's shirt, and defendant took off plaintiff's shirt
and bra. Defendant tried to take off plaintiff's pants and underwear, but she
said no and reasserted that she did not want to have sexual intercourse.
Defendant took them off anyway, held plaintiff down by her shoulders, and
penetrated her. Defendant also pressed down "very hard" on plaintiff's neck so
that she had a "slightly" hard time breathing. Plaintiff told defendant "no"
multiple times as she was being sexually assaulted. Defendant continued to
penetrate her for approximately three minutes, then ejaculated on her leg
before letting her up.
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Defendant drove plaintiff home that night and told her "he felt like he
did something bad."
On March 10 or 11, defendant filed a police report in which he claimed
that plaintiff reached toward his genitals. 3
On March 11, plaintiff applied for and was granted a TRO against
defendant. On April 3, she amended her complaint to include additional
details about the sexual assault incident and the events leading up to it.
A bench trial was held over the course of two days in April and May. In
addition to describing the sexual assault, plaintiff testified about her potential
future contact with defendant. She explained that starting in the fall, she
would be enrolled at the same college as defendant and would be attending
classes in either the same or adjacent classroom buildings. She expressed
concern that she would run into defendant as there are "too many common
places." Plaintiff further testified that the parties have mutual acquaintances
and similar social circles.
3
The record on appeal does not indicate what police did in response to
defendant's report or whether plaintiff was aware of it when she applied for a
TRO. However, as of the May 19, 2025 hearing, defendant was aware of a
"pending" criminal investigation against him related to the incident, although
no charges had yet been filed. The record does not indicate whether criminal
charges were ever filed against either party.
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Plaintiff also expressed concern that defendant could come to her
workplace, testifying:
A: My job has no security and is a very, very busy
[convenience store]. And we've gotten robbed before.
I work every type of shift. And, sometimes, there's
just little to no staff there. . . .
Q: Has this defendant ever shown up at this
[convenience store]?
A: I have no clue.
....
Q: Does he know where it is?
A: Well, he does from the restraining order, I think.
....
Q: How about prior to the first week of March? Did
he know?
A: I think I've told him where I worked. I'm not sure.
Plaintiff, who plays softball, also testified that defendant "shadows [her]
athletic trainer" and that she "couldn't even go to" her remaining softball
games "because [she] knew he was going to be there and . . . just didn't feel
safe." Finally, she noted that defendant knows where she lives.
At trial, defendant denied that he held plaintiff down, penetrated her, or
strangled her. He claimed that he fell asleep in his gaming chair and awoke to
plaintiff touching him.
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II.
TRIAL COURT RULING
Following the parties' testimony, the trial court rendered an oral opinion.
It found that plaintiff was "inherently believable" and "more credible" than
defendant. Specifically, the court credited her testimony that
[defendant] took off both [her] shirts and held her
down by her shoulders and later placed [his] hands . . .
on her neck. And that it did affect her breathing. And
that he did that four or five times.
The court thereupon held that plaintiff proved by a preponderance of the
evidence that defendant committed the predicate act of sexual assault. See
N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(7), N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2. Specifically, the court found that
defendant committed "an act of sexual penetration" and used "physical force or
coercion, but the victim [did] not sustain severe personal injury," in violation
of N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(c)(1).4 The court also addressed defendant's alleged
strangulation of plaintiff, noting it was "very concerned about that because our
[L]egislature amended the aggravated assault statute in . . . 2021 to make that
4
We note the trial court appears to have mistakenly applied a version of the
sexual assault statute predating amendments made in 2020. The pre-
amendment statute required that an actor "uses physical force or coercion."
N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(c)(1) (2019). The revised statute instead requires that the
actor "commits the act using coercion or without the victim's affirmative and
freely-given permission." N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(c)(1).
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kind of allegation a second degree crime." See N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13); L.
2021, c. 172, § 1. However, the court made no further determination as to
whether, in addition to sexual assault, defendant also committed the predicate
act of assault.5 See N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(2); N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1.
Turning to the second part of the Silver6 test, the court noted that the
parties live in different towns. The court acknowledged plaintiff's "particular
fear in regards to this particular matter" and "the fact that she worked at a
[convenience store] and [defendant] knew that." The court found, however,
that the parties had no "previous history" before their "one-week relationship."
The court also found that defendant "knew something had happened" and
that his text messages after the second date expressed that he was sorry. The
court concluded:
[T]he fact that [plaintiff is] now going to transfer to
the college that [defendant attends] . . . I do not think
that she met the second prong. I think [she] absolutely
proved the case in regards to the assault. I think that
he understands that that's not the kind of conduct of
how a man should treat a woman, and that he clearly
had predatory tendencies.
5
We note that on her initial and amended TRO complaint, plaintiff checked
the boxes for both "Sexual Assault" and "Assault" in the section alleging
defendant's criminal offenses.
6
Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112 (App. Div. 2006).
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In regards to issuing the final order . . . I need to
see immediate danger, realizing that I think she was
credible when she talked about strangulation. . . . I
think [what he did was] despicable.
....
. . . [W]hile I . . . think [plaintiff is] scared, I think
she's legitimate, I don't think she showed me the legal
burden of proof for me to issue the order.
The court thereupon declined to issue an FRO and dismissed the TRO.
The court then addressed defendant, stating:
[Court]: You understand that when you see her
around in the fall, you're going to turn the other way.
You're not to talk to her. You're not to look at her.
You're not to do anything. Do you understand that?
[Defendant]: Yes, sir.
[Court]: Do you understand the break you got today?
[Defendant]: Yes, sir.
This appeal follows. Plaintiff contends the trial court erred in failing to
find the need for an FRO and that she is entitled to an FRO as a matter of law.
She argues that "the continuing probability of contacts between the [p]arties
makes a finding of ongoing need perfunctory and self-evident especially
considering that the [c]ourt felt the need to warn [defendant] about future
contact." Plaintiff further asserts that "sexual assault with strangulation is
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such an egregious single act, that a victim should be entitled to an [FRO] as a
matter of law in all but the most unique of circumstances."
III.
GENERAL LEGAL PRINCPLES
We begin our analysis by canvassing some of the general legal principles
that guide us, starting with an acknowledgment that the scope of our review is
constrained by the deference we accord to Family Part judges in domestic
violence cases. As a general matter, "findings by a trial court are binding on
appeal when supported by adequate, substantial, credible evidence." Gnall v.
Gnall, 222 N.J. 414, 428 (2015). "We accord substantial deference to Family
Part judges, who routinely hear domestic violence cases and are 'specially
trained to detect the difference between domestic violence and more ordinary
differences that arise between couples.'" C.C. v. J.A.H., 463 N.J. Super. 419,
428 (App. Div. 2020) (quoting J.D. v. M.D.F., 207 N.J. 458, 482 (2011)).
"[D]eference is especially appropriate 'when the evidence is largely testimonial
and involves questions of credibility.'" MacKinnon v. MacKinnon, 191 N.J.
240, 254 (2007) (quoting Cesare v. Cesare, 154 N.J. 394, 412 (1998)).
Accordingly, we will not disturb a trial court's factual findings unless "'they
are so manifestly unsupported by or inconsistent with the competent, relevant
and reasonably credible evidence as to offend the interests of justice.'" Cesare,
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154 N.J. at 412 (quoting Rova Farms Resort, Inc. v. Invs. Ins. Co. of Am., 65
N.J. 474, 484 (1974)).
However, we do not accord deference to legal conclusions, such as
interpretations of a statute, which we review de novo. See C.R. v. M.T. (C.R.
II), 257 N.J. 126, 139 (2024); see also Thieme v. Aucoin-Thieme, 227 N.J.
269, 283 (2016) (noting appellate courts owe no special deference to a trial
court's "interpretation of the law" (quoting D.W. v. R.W., 212 N.J. 232, 245
(2012))).
Although the PDVA is codified in chapter 25 of the New Jersey Code of
Criminal Justice (penal code), N.J.S.A. 2C:1-1 to 2C:104-9, it does not impose
punishment but rather authorizes civil complaints brought by private plaintiffs
applying the preponderance-of-the-evidence standard of proof, as distinct from
criminal actions brought by prosecutors applying the much higher proof-
beyond-a-reasonable-doubt standard. Given its placement in the penal code,
the PDVA incorporates by reference certain other provisions of Title 2C. The
listed predicate acts set forth in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a), for example, are
indictable crimes and disorderly and petty disorderly persons offenses defined
in subtitle 2 (chapters 11-41) of the penal code. These substantive offenses, in
turn, are assigned degree classifications for sentencing purposes, grading their
comparative seriousness. See N.J.S.A. 2C:43-1. Some crimes designated as
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domestic violence predicate acts, moreover, may be subject to special
sentencing enhancements, such as the No Early Release Act (NERA), N.J.S.A.
2C:43-7.2. These criminal sentencing features indicate the Legislature's rating
of the relative seriousness of the offense conduct, which, as we explain, is a
relevant consideration in PDVA civil actions, not just criminal prosecutions.
The PDVA explicitly states that one of its core purposes is to "assure the
victims of domestic violence the maximum protection from abuse the law can
provide." G.M. v. C.V., 453 N.J. Super. 1, 12 (App. Div. 2018) (quoting State
v. Brown, 394 N.J. Super. 492, 504 (App. Div. 2007) (quoting N.J.S.A. 2C:25-
18)). Stated another way, "[o]ur law is particularly solicitous of victims of
domestic violence," M.D.F., 207 N.J. at 473 (alteration in original) (quoting
State v. Hoffman, 149 N.J. 564, 584 (1997)), and courts will "liberally
construe[] [the PDVA] to achieve its salutary purposes." Cesare, 154 N.J. at
400.
The PDVA applies to adults who have some form of domestic
relationship as specified in the statute. See N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19. It defines a
"[v]ictim of domestic violence" to include, for example, "any person who has
been subjected to domestic violence by a person with whom the victim has had
a dating relationship." N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(d) (emphasis added). The
emphasized text makes clear that the authority to issue an FRO does not
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depend on whether the dating relationship is ongoing. In other words, the
plain language of the PDVA provides unequivocally that a court may issue an
FRO notwithstanding that the dating relationship has since been irrevocably
terminated. Here, defendant does not dispute that he and plaintiff were in a
dating relationship that started before the predicate act of domestic violence.
When determining whether to grant an FRO pursuant to the PDVA, the
trial court must make two sequential determinations. See Silver, 387 N.J.
Super. at 125-27. First, the court must determine whether the plaintiff has
proved by a preponderance of the evidence that "one or more of the predicate
acts set forth in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a) has occurred." Id. at 125. This entails
finding that the plaintiff has proved all of the elements of the applicable
offense(s) as defined in the penal code. This stage is roughly analogous to the
guilt phase of a criminal proceeding.
If the plaintiff has satisfied the first prong, the court must next determine
whether an FRO is necessary to protect the plaintiff from "immediate danger
or to prevent further abuse." Id. at 127. In other words, the second inquiry
under the Silver analytical paradigm "is whether the court should enter a
restraining order that provides protection for the victim." Id. at 126. This
second stage is roughly analogous to the penalty/sentencing phase of a
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criminal prosecution, although we do not mean to suggest that an FRO under
the PDVA is punitive as distinct from remedial and preventative.
We emphasized in Silver that "the commission of any one of the
predicate acts enumerated in [the PDVA] does not automatically warrant
issuance of a domestic violence restraining order." Id. at 124. In R.G. v. R.G.,
we reaffirmed that principle, explaining that "the trial court must find a
predicate offense and also find a basis, upon the history of the parties'
relationship, to conclude the safety of the victim is threatened and a restraining
order is necessary to prevent further danger to person or property." 449 N.J.
Super. 208, 224 (App. Div. 2017); see also Corrente v. Corrente, 281 N.J.
Super. 243, 248 (App. Div. 1995) ("[T]he drafters of the law did not intend
that the commission of any one of these acts automatically would warrant the
issuance of a domestic violence order."). In other words, with respect to the
decision on whether to issue an FRO, there is no counterpart in the PDVA to
the "mandatory" or even "presumptive" prison sentences that are sometimes
prescribed under the criminal provisions of the penal code. See e.g., N.J.S.A.
2C:44-1(d) (establishing a strict presumption of imprisonment when a person
is convicted of a first or second-degree crime or certain other offenses).
However, the PDVA does generally provide that once the decision is made to
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enter an FRO, that order must include relief to prevent further abuse. N.J.S.A.
2C:25-29(b).
We explained in Silver:
Although this second determination—whether a
domestic violence restraining order should be issued—
is most often perfunctory and self-evident, the guiding
standard is whether a restraining order is necessary,
upon an evaluation of the factors set forth in N.J.S.A.
2C:25-29(a)(1) to -29(a)(6), to protect the victim from
an immediate danger or to prevent further abuse. See
N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(b) (stating that "[i]n proceedings in
which complaints for restraining orders have been
filed, the court shall grant any relief necessary to
prevent further abuse") ([e]mphasis added).
[387 N.J. Super. at 127.]
The non-exhaustive7 list of relevant factors codified in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-
29(a)(1) to -29(a)(7)8 are as follows:
7
The preface to the list of factors expressly provides that "[i]n considering the
necessity of a restraining order the court shall consider but not be limited to
the following factors." N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a) (emphasis added).
8
Effective January 8, 2024, the PDVA was amended to include a "pattern
coercive control" among the statutory factors courts must consider when
determining whether to issue an FRO. N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(7); L. 2023, c.
230, § 1. We note that our courts have long recognized that a pattern of
controlling behavior is a dangerous form of domestic violence that threatens
the safety of those subjected to it. See Cesare, 154 N.J. at 397 (describing
domestic violence as a "pattern of abusive and controlling behavior injurious
to its victims" (quoting Peranio v. Peranio, 280 N.J. Super. 47, 52 (App. Div.
1995))).
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(1) The previous history of domestic violence between
the plaintiff and defendant, including threats,
harassment and physical abuse;
(2) The existence of immediate danger to person or
property;
(3) The financial circumstances of the plaintiff and
defendant;
(4) The best interests of the victim and any child;
(5) In determining custody and parenting time the
protection of the victim's safety;
(6) The existence of a verifiable order of protection
from another jurisdiction; and
(7) Any pattern of coercive control against a person
that in purpose or effect unreasonably interferes with,
threatens, or exploits a person's liberty, freedom,
bodily integrity, or human rights with the court
specifically considering evidence of the need for
protection from immediate danger or the prevention of
further abuse.
The second step under Silver also "requires the conduct must be imbued
by a desire to abuse or control the victim." R.G., 449 N.J. Super. at 228 (citing
Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 126-27). Coercive control, we emphasize, is a
common if not ubiquitous characteristic of domestic violence and often signals
the need for the protection afforded to victims under the PDVA. See Silver,
387 N.J. Super. at 128 (describing a "pattern of abusive and controlling
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behavior" as a "classic characteristic of domestic violence") (citing Cesare,
154 N.J. at 397-98).
We find further general guidance on how to apply the second step of the
Silver paradigm by looking at the Sexual Assault Survivor Protection Act of
2015 (SASPA), N.J.S.A. 2C:14-13 to -21—a complementary statute that
authorizes civil restraining orders in cases involving sexual crimes where there
is no domestic relationship between the sexual offender and the victim. In
C.R. II, our Supreme Court recently explained that SASPA allows survivors of
sexual assault who are ineligible for a restraining order under the PDVA to
seek a temporary protective order (TPO) and final protective order (FPO). 257
N.J. at 140. The Court offered the example of a victim who is subjected to
sexual violence by someone with whom they have "less than a dating
relationship," and who is thus ineligible for an FRO under the PDVA. Id. at
141 (quoting R.L.U. v. J.P., 457 N.J. Super. 129, 135 (App. Div. 2018)). The
Court noted that SASPA was intended to "fill this void." Ibid. (quoting
R.L.U., 457 N.J. Super. at 135).
The Court further noted that "[a]s a complement to the PDVA, SASPA
mirrors the PDVA in certain respects, and diverges from it in others." Id. at
143. The Court then focused on one of the differences between the two
statutes, highlighting that SASPA lists only two factors that the trial court
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must consider, whereas the PDVA codifies a non-exhaustive list of (now)
seven factors that must be considered. 9 Id. at 143-44. More specifically, the
Court focused on the provision in SASPA that requires a trial court to consider
"the possibility of future risk to the safety or well-being of the alleged victim,"
N.J.S.A. 2C:14-16(a)(2). The Court compared that statutory language with the
factor in the PDVA that requires courts to consider "[t]he existence of
immediate danger to person or property," N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(2). Id. at 143-
44.10
9
We note that five of the (now) seven enumerated FRO factors in the PDVA
suggest a past or ongoing relationship between the parties and thus would
likely have no applicability in the context of SASPA. These are: factor one
(the previous history of domestic violence between the parties); factor three
(the financial circumstances of the plaintiff and defendant, suggesting some
form of financial interdependence); factor five (custody and parenting time
considerations, indicating the parties have one or more children in common);
factor six (an order of protection from another jurisdiction, presupposing past
domestic violence between the parties); and factor seven (a pattern of coercive
control, suggesting a past relationship between the parties). N.J.S.A. 2C:25 -
29(a)(1) to -29(a)(7).
10
We note that Justice Fasciale in a concurring opinion disagreed that SASPA
requires victims to speculate about the "possibility of future risk to [their]
safety or well-being." Id. at 153-54 (Fasciale, J., concurring). In his view,
under SASPA, once a victim proves by a preponderance of the evidence that a
defendant committed a predicate sexual act, the victim is automatically entitled
to an FPO prohibiting the assailant from contacting the victim and committing
further predicate acts. Id. at 154.
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Construing the formulation found in SASPA, the Court explained that
"[t]he plain language of factor two thus requires a court to consider whether
there is a chance that a survivor may be exposed to physical danger, risk, or
injury, or may be exposed to something emotionally unwelcome or unpleasant
that could make them feel uncomfortable, unhealthy, or unhappy." Id. at 146.
The Court characterized the SASPA formulation as a "permissive" and
"lenient" standard that is "easily satisfied." Id. at 145, 146.
Of note for purposes of the matter before us, the Court compared the text
of the second SASPA factor with the text of the second FRO factor in the
PDVA, reasoning that the Legislature's decision to use different formulations
was deliberate and meaningful. Id. at 147.
We do not read C.R. II to suggest that the PDVA's second factor is
onerous, only that it is different from and not as easily satisfied as the
corresponding SASPA factor. 11 While described by the C.R. II Court as
complementary, id. at 143, there are structural differences between the two
statutes that might explain why the Legislature in SASPA did not copy the
PDVA FRO factors that do not presuppose a domestic relationship. See note
9. For example, the PDVA covers a much wider range of offenses than
11
In reaching this conclusion, the Court in C.R. II also noted that the
consequences to a defendant of a PDVA FRO "can be far more severe" than
those of a SASPA FPO. Id. at 144.
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SASPA; it is by no means limited to sexual offenses. It also bears noting that
while some PDVA predicate acts constitute very serious crimes, including
homicide, kidnapping, and aggravated sexual assault, one of the most
commonly cited predicate acts, harassment, is generally graded as a petty
disorderly persons offense. See N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4. As we explain, we believe
that as a general proposition, to ensure proportionality in effectuating the
protective goals of the PDVA, the greater the level of violence that is proven,
the easier it is for a plaintiff to satisfy the second prong of the Silver analytical
paradigm. Indeed, that is exactly what the perfunctory-and-self-evident
principle accomplishes.
Accordingly, although the proofs needed for an FRO under the PDVA
may be more rigorous than the proofs needed for an FPO under SASPA, we do
not believe that the PDVA sets a high bar for domestic violence victims who
have already proved by a preponderance of the evidence that they were
subjected to egregious physical violence during a dating relationship. To
suggest otherwise would conflict with the long-established perfunctory-and-
self-evident principle, let alone the PDVA's explicit policy statement that the
Legislature intended to provide domestic violence victims the "maximum
protection from abuse the law can provide." N.J.S.A. 2C:25-18.
IV.
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RECONCILING POTENTIALLY COMPETING LEGAL PRINCIPLES
We next apply the foregoing legal principles to the present facts. We
begin by reconciling two PDVA features that can lead to different outcomes:
the notion on the one hand that courts must consider whether there was a
pattern of domestic violence or whether instead the predicate act was isolated
and aberrational, and, on the other hand, the notion that some predicate acts by
their inherent nature warrant an FRO even in the absence of past domestic
violence involving the parties.
As a general matter, the absence of a pattern of past domestic violence
weighs against the need for an FRO. The case law nonetheless makes clear
that while past domestic violence is a relevant factor, indeed one that is
explicitly codified in the PDVA, it is not a material element that must be
proved in all cases as a categorical prerequisite to an FRO. In Cesare, our
Supreme Court explained that "[a]lthough a court is not obligated to find a past
history of abuse before determining that an act of domestic violence has been
committed in a particular situation, a court must at least consider that factor in
the course of its analysis." 154 N.J. at 402 (emphasis in original). The Court
added that "one sufficiently egregious" action may constitute domestic
violence under the PDVA. Ibid.
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In Silver, we embraced and expounded upon those principles, applying
them not just to the decision on whether a predicate act of domestic violence
was committed, but also to the secondary question of whether an FRO is
needed. We explained,
Although it is clear that a pattern of abusive and
controlling behavior is a classic characteristic of
domestic violence, see [Cesare,154 N.J. at 397-98],
the need for an order of protection upon the
commission of a predicate act of "domestic violence,"
as specifically defined in [the PDVA], may arise even
in the absence of such a pattern where there is "one
sufficiently egregious action[.]" Id. at 402.
[387 N.J. Super. at 128 (third alteration in original).]
See also J.A.H, 463 N.J. Super. at 434 (recognizing that a history of domestic
violence is only "one of six non-exhaustive factors judges must consider when
evaluating whether an FRO is necessary for a plaintiff's protection").
The recognition that a single "sufficiently egregious action" can suffice
to grant an FRO is an important feature of our domestic violence
jurisprudence—one designed to ensure that victims of physical violence
receive the maximum protection the PDVA can provide. See N.J.S.A. 2C:25-
18. In A.M.C. v. P.B., we applied this precept, explaining that "[w]hen the
predicate act is an offense that inherently involves the use of physical force
and violence, the decision to issue an FRO 'is most often perfunctory and self -
evident.'" 447 N.J. Super. 402, 417 (App. Div. 2016) (quoting Silver, 387 N.J.
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Super. at 127). See also S.K. v. J.H., 426 N.J. Super. 230, 233 (App. Div.
2012) (commenting that an attack that left the victim with severe bruises,
fractures in her orbital bone and jaw, cuts requiring stitches, and a lung injury
was "a predicate act of such severity and viciousness that the need for a
restraining order . . . was 'perfunctory and self-evident'" (quoting Silver, 387
N.J. Super. at 127)).
The "one sufficiently egregious action" principle helps to ensure a
proportionate response to each domestic violence situation, recognizing that
the same basic remedy—an FRO with all of its potentially "severe"
consequences, C.R. II, 257 N.J. at 144—applies to a wide spectrum of
unlawful conduct, ranging from petty disorderly persons offenses to first -
degree crimes. While such a remedy may be entirely appropriate, indeed
necessary, for a single offense involving serious physical violence like the
second-degree NERA crime in this case, it might be inappropriate for a less
serious predicate act, such as one graded under the penal code as a petty
disorderly persons offense, absent evidence that the present predicate act was
part of a pattern of repetitive conduct. In cases involving less serious
predicate acts, in other words, it is the pattern of domestic violence, not its
latest iteration viewed in isolation, that may justify an FRO with all its
attendant consequences.
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That said, neither the "one sufficiently egregious action" principle nor
the "perfunctory and self-evident" principle supplants the need to consider the
statutory factors set forth in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(1) to (7). The point, rather,
is that the non-exhaustive FRO factors enumerated in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(1)
to (7) should be viewed in conjunction with these principles, which apply
when the predicate act involves physical force and violence, and especially
when that force and violence is egregious.
To be clear, we do not mean to suggest a bright-line, categorical rule
whereby a finding that a defendant committed an especially serious predicate
crime automatically requires the issuance of an FRO. As we have noted, there
are no "mandatory" FROs under the PDVA, in stark contrast to the myriad of
mandatory sentences that must be imposed upon conviction under the criminal
provisions of the penal code. Furthermore, in assessing the risk of future
domestic violence between the parties, courts must make a case-sensitive
assessment of the likelihood that the parties will have future interactions that
might provide an opportunity or incentive for further victimization.
Stated another way, the egregiousness of the predicate act of physical
domestic violence does not shift the ultimate burden of persuasion regarding
the decision on whether to issue an FRO but rather is an important
consideration in deciding whether a plaintiff has satisfied their burden under
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the second prong of the Silver two-part paradigm. The greater the level of
egregiousness, the greater the need to invoke the protections of an FRO.
Applying these principles to the present facts, we conclude the absence
of any prior history of domestic violence between the parties has little bearing
on the victim's need for protection, considering that the dating relationship that
establishes jurisdiction under the PDVA began only shortly before the
commission of the predicate act. The fact that one of the earliest interactions
between parties in a new dating relationship takes the form of a forcible rape
hardly militates against the need for a stay-away/no-contact order when, as
here, there are reasons to believe that there may be future encounters between
the parties.12
We appreciate that as a general matter, past acts of domestic violence
can provide a benchmark for determining, for example, whether the level of
discord in a tumultuous relationship is escalating. Past acts, in other words,
may not only indicate a likelihood that domestic violence will recur but also
reveal a trend that foreshadows even more serious violence unless the pattern
is interrupted by an FRO. But here, there is no need for any such benchmark
from which to predict an escalation, for example, from verbal abuse or
12
We further note that, even before the sexual assault, there was a pattern of
pressure by defendant for plaintiff to have sex with him.
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property damage to a physical attack, because the present predicate act already
involves physical and sexual violence.
It would make little sense, moreover, to interpret the PDVA so strictly as
to deny protection to plaintiff on the present facts considering that she would
almost certainly be entitled to a SASPA FPO if the same egregious sexual
assault/strangulation happened to occur at the parties' first meeting, if that was
found to be "less than a dating relationship." See C.R. II, 257 N.J. at 141
(quoting R.L.U., 457 N.J. Super. at 135). Here, the sexual assault victim is not
less vulnerable to further abuse because there happened to be a brief domestic
relationship between the parties that provides jurisdiction under the PDVA but
forecloses relief under SASPA.
Finally, we add that when the sexual abuse is especially egregious or
"despicable," to borrow the trial court's characterization, the perfunctory -and-
self-evident principle suggests that if a trial court decides that an FRO is not
needed to protect the victim from further abuse, it should be expected to
articulate sound reasons to support its conclusion. See R. 1:7-4; Curtis v.
Finneran, 83 N.J. 563, 570 (1980) ("Naked conclusions do not satisfy the
purpose of [Rule] 1:7-4. Rather, the trial court must state clearly its factual
findings and correlate them with the relevant legal conclusions."). It is not
enough, in other words, for a court simply to state in a conclusory fashion that
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the plaintiff has not shown the need for an FRO, or that the risk of further
abuse is not immediate.
V.
INHERENT EGREGIOUSNESS OF ACQUAINTANCE RAPE
As we have noted, when applying the perfunctory-and-self-evident
principle to the facts of specific cases, we must consider the severity of the
predicate act, since the more egregious the unlawful conduct, the greater the
need for protection from further abuse. At the risk of stating the obvious,
forcible sexual assault in violation of N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(c)(1)—violent conduct
graded as a second-degree crime13 and subject to enhanced punishment under
NERA—is an especially egregious predicate act, amply sufficient to justify an
FRO even in the absence of a pattern of past domestic violence. See Silver,
387 N.J. Super. at 128.
Aside from the physical trauma and emotional scarring that forcible
sexual assault causes, the acquaintance rape in this case hearkens to stone age
13
The trial court found that defendant committed nonconsensual sexual
assault under circumstances where the victim did not sustain severe personal
injury. See N.J.S.A. 2C:14-2(c)(1). Had the victim sustained severe personal
injury, the offense would be graded as a first-degree crime. N.J.S.A. 2C:14-
2(a)(6). We are satisfied the second-degree variety of forcible sexual assault
constitutes a "sufficiently egregious action" within the meaning of Cesare and
Silver.
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attitudes regarding the subjugation of women as sex objects who were
expected if not obliged to satisfy a man's sexual desires. Acquaintance rape, in
other words, is an obvious if not extreme example of the kind of coercive
control the PDVA does not tolerate. See R.G., 449 N.J. Super. at 228
(referring to misconduct "imbued by a desire to abuse or control the victim"
(citing Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 126-27)). The predicate act committed in this
case thus falls squarely within the heartland of the type of control and
domination the PDVA is designed to remediate and restrain.
In M.T.S., our Supreme Court traced the history of common law sexual
assault laws, culminating in statutory reforms in which New Jersey played an
important if not groundbreaking role. Justice Handler, writing for a
unanimous Court, forcefully explained,
Today the law of sexual assault is indispensable to the
system of legal rules that assures each of us the right
to decide who may touch our bodies, when, and under
what circumstances. The decision to engage in sexual
relations with another person is one of the most
private and intimate decisions a person can make.
Each person has the right not only to decide whether
to engage in sexual contact with another, but also to
control the circumstances and character of that
contact. No one, neither a spouse, nor a friend, nor an
acquaintance, nor a stranger, has the right or the
privilege to force sexual contact.
[129 N.J. at 446.]
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These criminal law reforms have a direct bearing on civil actions
brought under the PDVA, which, as we have noted, is codified in the penal
code and incorporates the code's substantive and definitional features. It bears
noting that there was a time before the adoption of the penal code reforms
when forcing a person in a domestic relationship to submit to sexual
intercourse was socially acceptable, or at least beyond the reach of the law.
For lack of a better characterization, the exercise of such control and
domination by a man over his intimate partner was treated essentially as if it
were a form of mere contretemps, not rising to the level of domestic violence.
Cf. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 125 (explaining the PDVA is meant to address
"matters of consequence" as distinguished from "ordinary domestic
contretemps").
Relatedly, as explained in M.T.S., the law once instructed police, judges,
and juries to be skeptical of rape victims and hostile to their claims. See
M.T.S., 129 N.J. at 429-39. See also State v. Chambers, 252 N.J. 561, 585
(2023) (noting that the Sexual Assault Victim's Bill of Rights (SAVBR),
N.J.S.A. 52:4B-60.2, explains that "victims of sexual violence in particular
often face circumstances where they may be blamed for the crime, assumed to
be fabricating the crime, or taken less seriously than their injuries warrant"
(quoting N.J.S.A. 52:4B-60.2(b))). Those attitudes and policies emerged and
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flourished in an extended era when men dominated the legal profession and set
the rules for women to follow when sexually assaulted. The Court in M.T.S.
emphasized that the penal code's reforms jettisoned such hoary principles as
the need for victims to make a "hue and cry" or to show they resisted to the
utmost before their allegations of sexual abuse would be countenanced. See
M.T.S., 129 N.J. at 429-47. The reforms also rejected the notion that a man
could not be guilty of raping his own wife. Id. at 438, 441. The adoption of
the sexual assault provisions of the penal code was a watershed event,
transforming our criminal rape laws and bringing them into the modern era.
Especially considering the enactment of complementary statutes such as
SAVBR and SASPA, we are convinced that our civil domestic violence laws,
not just our substantive criminal laws, are no longer haunted by the ghosts of
such archaic social attitudes and discredited legal policies.
VI.
STRANGULATION AS AN AGGRAVATING CIRCUMSTANCE
Aside from the egregiousness inherent in nonconsensual sexual
penetration, the assaultive conduct in this case also involved strangulation.
That form of physical violence likewise signals the kind of coercive control
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that the PDVA is designed to forestall, even when it does not rise to the level
of attempted murder or render the victim unconscious. 14
Strangulation is a distinctive form of violence—one that can have not
only severe physical consequences but severe psychological consequences as
well. In People v. Reid, a criminal case charging domestic violence under
California law, the court cited to the legislative history of a California bill for
the proposition that:
Prior to the research and recent focus on strangulation
training programs and specialized intervention
processes, this lethal violence was often minimized.
In many cases, the lack of physical evidence caused
the criminal justice system to treat "choking" cases as
minor incidents, much like a slap to the face where
only redness might appear. Today, based on the
involvement of the medical profession, specialized
training for police and prosecutors, and ongoing
research, strangulation has become a focus area for
policy makers and professionals working to reduce
intimate partner violence and sexual assault.
[25 Cal. Rptr. 3d 820, 827-28 (Cal. Ct. App. 2024).]
14
See N.J.S.A. 2C:11-1(a), (b), and (d), defining "serious bodily injury" to
include "protracted loss or impairment of the function of any bodily member or
organ;" "significant bodily injury" to include "a temporary loss of the function
of any bodily member or organ or temporary loss of any one of the five
senses;" and "bodily injury" to include "physical pain . . . or any impairment of
physical condition." As we explain, the penal code was amended in 2021 to
make strangulation of a domestic violence victim a second-degree crime of
aggravated assault notwithstanding the victim did not suffer significant bodily
injury. See N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13); L. 2021, c. 172, § 1.
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In Commonwealth v. Moore, the Supreme Court of Kentucky recently
noted in a similar vein,
Strangulation is one of the most accurate predictors
for the subsequent homicide of victims of domestic
violence. Strangulation is the calling card of a serial
rapist. The problem of intimate partner violence
(IPV) is multifaceted, but experts agree there are few
offenses as indicative of an intent to control, harm,
and/or kill than strangulation. In fact, if a person is
strangled even one time, the victim's chance of being
killed by their abuser is increased by 750%.
[709 S.W. 3d 241, 258 (2025) (quoting Office of the
Kentucky Attorney General, Responding to
Strangulation in Kentucky: Guidelines for
Prosecutors, Law Enforcement, Health Care Providers,
and Victim Advocates 5 (2025)).]
See also Supreme Court of Ohio, Domestic Violence & Allocation of Parental
Rights and Responsibilities: Court Guide 2-3 (rev. 2023) (including
strangulation in a list of "Lethality or Risk Factors" for purposes of allocating
parental rights and responsibilities).
We note that the New Jersey Attorney General has also issued a
statewide law enforcement directive instructing police and prosecutors on how
to respond to this form of violence. See Off. of the Att'y Gen., Law Enf't
Directive No. 2023-03, Directive Establishing Breathing/Blood flow
Restriction Event: Advocacy, Treatment, Help, and Empowerment
(BREATHE) Team (Aug. 21, 2023). The Directive highlights the dangers of
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strangling and notes the predictive value of strangulation in assessing the risk
of future violence. Id. at 1.
When an assailant resorts to strangulation of a domestic partner, their
immediate purpose may not be to kill but rather to assert physical dominance.
In those instances, the actor is sending the message that they could kill the
victim if they wanted to simply by tightening and maintaining their grip, but
have chosen instead to release the stranglehold as an assertion of raw power —
a nonverbal statement designed to foster fear and compel subservience. That
is a quintessential example of the kind of coercive control that lies at the heart
of the domestic violence problem, and the kind of conduct that the PDVA is
intended to restrain. 15
It bears emphasis that in 2017, the Legislature amended the penal code
to create a new variant of aggravated assault that deals specifically with
strangulation of a domestic violence victim. L. 2017, c. 240, § 1. N.J.S.A.
2C:12-1(b)(13) provides that a person is guilty of aggravated assault if they
[k]nowingly or, under circumstances manifesting
extreme indifference to the value of human life,
15
See Dércio de Assis et al., Non-Fatal Strangulation Laws and Intimate
Partner Homicides, IZA Institute of Labor Economics, July 2025, at 2 (finding
that non-fatal strangulation "is an important risk factor for subsequent intimate
partner homicide . . . and signals an escalation of violence and control within
the relationship" (citations omitted)).
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recklessly obstructs the breathing or blood circulation
of a person who, with respect to the actor, meets the
definition of a victim of domestic violence, as defined
in [N.J.S.A. 25-19(d)], by applying pressure on the
throat or neck or blocking the nose or mouth of such
person, thereby causing or attempting to cause bodily
injury.
In 2021, the Legislature elevated this offense to a second-degree crime.
L. 2021, c. 172, § 1. As a result, under the revised penal code, aggravated
assault by strangulation as defined in N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(13) is a second-
degree crime notwithstanding that the victim did not suffer significant bodily
injury. Cf. N.J.S.A. 2C:12-1(b)(12) (making an assault a crime of the second
degree if the actor causes significant bodily injury to a person who, with
respect to the actor, meets the definition of a victim of domestic violence).
See note 13.
The strangulation type of aggravated assault constitutes a predicate act
under the PDVA, which, as we have noted, incorporates by reference the
definitions and elements of the acts enumerated in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a),
including any type of "assault" under N.J.S.A. 2C:12-2. See N.J.S.A. 2C:25-
19(a)(2). Although strangulation is not included in the non-exhaustive list of
FRO factors enumerated in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(1) to -29(a)(7), in view of the
sentencing upgrade for this form of aggravated assault, the predictive value of
strangulation, and the animating principle that the PDVA is intended to
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provide domestic violence victims maximum protection, we hold that
strangulation is a highly relevant circumstance bearing on a victim's need for
an FRO.16 Relatedly, we hold that while there are no automatic FROs under
the PDVA framework, strangulation by itself can be a "sufficiently egregious
action" so as to invoke the perfunctory-and-self-evident principle. See Silver,
387 N.J. Super. at 128. We add that in this case, the strangulation co-occurred
with nonconsensual sexual penetration, amplifying immeasurably the overall
level of physical force and egregiousness of the manner in which the predicate
act was committed.
VII.
RISK ASSESSMENT OF FURTHER ABUSE
The second part of the Silver test, addressing the case-sensitive need for
an FRO, necessarily entails an assessment of the risk of future harm to the
victim. Unlike Criminal Part judges hearing pretrial detention hearings under
the Criminal Justice Reform Act, N.J.S.A. 2A:162-15 to -26, who are provided
with a detailed Public Safety Assessment that measures the risk of failure-to-
16
We note that while it was alleged in plaintiff's TRO complaint, the trial
court did not determine whether, in addition to sexual assault, defendant
committed the predicate act of assault by strangulation. That circumstance
does not foreclose the consideration of strangulation as a relevant factor in
determining the need for an FRO under the second part of the Silver two-part
test.
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appear and new criminal activity, Family Part judges hearing domestic
violence cases are not provided with a validated risk assessment tool or an
evidence-based decision-making framework to inform their determination of
the risk of further abuse or the need for court-ordered conditions such as a stay
away/no contact order. 17
Here, the trial court noted that defendant had "predatory tendencies."
The court also found that plaintiff was "scared" and that her fear of defendant
was "legitimate." See J.D. v. A.M.W., 475 N.J. Super. 306, 314 (App. Div.
2023) (holding that plaintiff's "fear of defendant and the prior history of
domestic violence" were enough to satisfy the second Silver prong); P.B., 447
N.J. Super. at 409, 417 (holding an FRO was required where a physical assault
left plaintiff "emotionally shaken" and caused her to fear further abuse). Cf.
D.M.R. v. M.K.G., 467 N.J. Super. 308, 324 (App. Div. 2021) (reversing entry
of an FRO in part because "[p]laintiff did not express fear of defendant" and
17
We note that police and prosecutors have developed a tool for assessing
domestic violence risks. See Off. of the Att'y Gen., Law Enf't Directive No.
2016-6 v3.0, Amended Directive Establishing Interim Policies, Practices, and
Procedures to Implement Criminal Justice Reform Pursuant to P.L. 2014, c. 31
44 (Sept. 27, 2017) (designating the Ontario Domestic Assault Risk
Assessment (ODARA) "as the risk assessment tool to be utilized by law
enforcement officers in New Jersey to assist in identifying the risk of future
assaults between intimate partners"). So far as we are aware, that instrument
has not been adopted by the judiciary. See id. at 47 ("The Judiciary has made
clear that it currently is not prepared to utilize the ODARA.").
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"the judge stated that he did not know whether plaintiff was afraid"). The
court nonetheless concluded that plaintiff had not demonstrated that an FRO
was necessary to protect her from "immediate danger." We disagree.
A.
Immediacy of Danger
The trial court's conclusion that an FRO was not needed to protect
plaintiff from immediate danger may reflect a misunderstanding of what must
be proved to justify an FRO. As we have noted, the trial court in its oral ruling
stated, "I need to see immediate danger." There is another route, however, for
establishing the second prong of the Silver test.
It is certainly true that one of the statutory FRO factors is "[t]he
existence of immediate danger to person or property." N.J.S.A. 2C:25-
29(a)(2). We stress, however, that this is not a categorical prerequisite to an
FRO but rather a relevant factor, one of seven bearing on the second part of the
Silver test. Cf. J.A.H, 463 N.J. Super. at 434 (recognizing that a history of
domestic violence is only "one of six [now seven] non-exhaustive factors
judges must consider when evaluating whether an FRO is necessary for a
plaintiff's protection").
Furthermore, Silver explains that if the plaintiff satisfies the first prong
by proving that a predicate act was committed, the court must next determine
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whether an FRO is necessary to protect the plaintiff from "immediate danger
or to prevent further abuse." 387 N.J. Super. at 127 (emphasis added). See
also N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(7) (stating with respect to the pattern of coercive
control FRO factor that the trial court must "specifically consider[] evidence of
the need for protection from immediate danger or the prevention of further
abuse" (emphasis added)). We presume the disjunctive formulation in both
Silver and the recent statutory amendment was intentional. Under the Silver
paradigm, in other words, the need to prevent "further abuse" can suffice to
justify an FRO even if the victim is not facing "immediate danger."
Relatedly, the goal of a permanent 18 FRO is to ensure not just immediate
but long-term protection. The PDVA, in other words, does not require proof
of a threat so imminent that it would be expected to come to fruition
instantaneously. Cf. Cesare, 154 N.J. at 402 (specifically addressing the
predicate act of terroristic threats, which is committed when a person
"threatens to kill another with purpose to put [them] in imminent fear of death
under circumstances reasonably causing the victim to believe the immediacy of
18
An FRO issued pursuant to the PDVA is permanent and does not have an
expiration date, although there is a procedure to vacate an FRO without the
victim's consent. See Carfagno v. Carfagno, 288 N.J. Super. 424, 435 (Ch.
Div. 1995) (enumerating eleven factors for a court to consider when deciding
whether to vacate or modify an FRO).
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the threat and the likelihood that it will be carried out" (quoting N.J.S.A.
2C:12-3(b))).
As we noted in Section VI, studies show that strangulation has predictive
value in gauging the risk of future harm to a victim. That circumstance alone,
in our view, establishes an adequate risk of further abuse in this case.
Importantly, moreover, the "further abuse" contemplated in Silver need
not be a carbon copy of the predicate act but might include other future
interactions that would be harmful to a victim who has already been scarred
and made vulnerable, 19 in this case, by egregious sexual violence. At the risk
of stating the obvious, an FRO would not be limited to enjoining rape but
would include other instructions to protect the victim's wellbeing. See
N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(b) ("In proceedings in which complaints for restraining
orders have been filed, the court shall grant any relief necessary to prevent
further abuse."). Here, plaintiff sought an FRO that would, in part, prohibit
defendant "from having any oral, written, personal, electronic, or other form of
contact or communication with" her. Such contact, if made deliberately,
19
See Chambers, 252 N.J. at 584 (noting "[o]ur courts have recognized that,
in sexual assault cases, 'the wellbeing of . . . victims demands heightened
protection' because there is a 'likelihood of emotional trauma and mental
distress.'" (quoting State v. D.R.H., 127 N.J. 249, 259 (1992))).
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would itself constitute further abuse. See N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a)(17) (making
contempt of a PDVA order a predicate act of domestic violence).
B.
Other Circumstances Relied on by the Trial Court
Aside from citing the lack of any previous history of domestic violence,
the only findings made by the trial court that might support its conclusion that
there was no immediate danger to defendant are (1) that "[defendant]
understands that that's not the kind of conduct of how a man should treat a
woman" and (2) the parties live in different towns. We address each of these
circumstances in turn.
1.
Remorse as a Mitigating Circumstance
As to the trial court's comment that defendant now "understands that
that's not the kind of conduct of how a man should treat a woman," the court
appears to have been referring to the fact that defendant apologized to plaintiff
for his conduct before the sexual assault, and while driving her home after the
assault, acknowledged that "he felt he did something bad." We recognize that
remorse, if genuine, might conceivably be a relevant consideration in
predicting future behavior and the likelihood of recidivism, cf. N.J.S.A. 2C:44-
1(b)(9) (establishing as a sentencing mitigating factor that "[t]he character and
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attitude of the defendant indicate that the defendant is unlikely to commit
another offense"). Here, however, we are not persuaded that defendant's
purported apology reasonably suggests that he has since come to appreciate
how a man should "treat a woman," to borrow the trial court's phrasing.
Rather, defendant's post-assault apology is as likely to have been an attempt to
convince plaintiff not to press criminal charges or to seek a PDVA restraining
order.20
We add that defendant had also expressed remorse to plaintiff after their
second date—a circumstance that did not dissuade him from taking sexual
advantage of plaintiff on the third and fateful date. And in any event, we
presume that defendant knew all along that sexual penetration achieved by
overpowering a protesting victim is unlawful. In these circumstances, any
remorse defendant may have expressed to the victim, or tacitly implied to the
court when he acknowledged he had received a "break," is not a legitimate
basis to deny an FRO, especially given the court's concurrent observation that
defendant has "predatory tendencies."
20
We note that defendant preemptively reported his version of events to
police before plaintiff applied for a TRO. Accusing plaintiff of unlawful
sexual contact does not strike us as remorseful or otherwise indicative of a
pledge not to repeat the unlawful conduct—which defendant denied at trial—
that the court found he committed. As we have noted, the record does not
indicate how police responded to defendant's report. See note 3.
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2.
Likelihood of Future Encounters
The trial court's finding that the parties live in different towns, while
supported by the record, is by no means conclusive on the likelihood that the
parties will interact in the future considering other facts in the record. The
trial court acknowledged that both parties would be attending the same college
in the fall. And while the court did not make explicit findings, plaintiff, whom
the court found to be credible, presented undisputed evidence that defendant
knows where she works and where she lives, having picked her up and
dropped her off at her home. See J.A.H., 463 N.J. Super. at 436 (noting that
the defendant's knowledge of plaintiff's address "provided another reason
substantiating [the] plaintiff's fear of [the] defendant"). Plaintiff likewise
testified that she and defendant have similar social circles and that she had
already missed several softball games "because [she] knew [defendant] was
going to be there and . . . didn't feel safe."
But lest there be any doubt about whether plaintiff adequately
established the risk of future contact and further abuse, the trial court
concluded its oral decision by addressing defendant directly, telling him,
"[y]ou understand that when you see her around in the fall, you're going to turn
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the other way" (emphasis added). As we have noted, this colloquy contradicts
the court's conclusion that an FRO was not necessary.
We find instructive guidance on this point in our decision in A.M.W. In
that case, the trial court declined to enter an FRO but directed the parties to
maintain twenty yards' distance between them at their son's sporting events
going forward. 475 N.J. Super. at 312. We reversed and remanded for entry
of an FRO, specifically highlighting this instruction by the trial court as
evidence of the ongoing need for a restraining order. Id. at 315. Here, too, the
trial court's remark further indicates that an FRO was necessary.
VIII.
CONSIDERATION OF THE BEST INTERESTS OF THE VICTIM
We next consider the implications of the trial court's failure in its oral
ruling to explicitly consider the "best interests of the victim," which is one of
the enumerated statutory factors. N.J.S.A. 2C:25-29(a)(4). Although, as we
have noted repeatedly, the statutory FRO factors are not required elements,
they must be considered. See C.R. II, 257 N.J. at 143-44 (noting that under the
PDVA, courts "shall" consider each statutory factor (quoting N.J.S.A. 2C:25 -
29(a))); Silver, 387 N.J. Super. at 127 (holding that the FRO determination
should be made "upon an evaluation of the factors set forth in [the PDVA]").
We deem the absence of any explicit consideration of plaintiff's best interests
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to be a serious deficiency in the trial court's rationale because on these facts,
plaintiff’s best interests militate strongly in favor of granting her request for an
FRO.
We reiterate and stress that "[o]ur law is particularly solicitous of
victims of domestic violence." M.D.F., 207 N.J. at 473 (alteration in original)
(quoting Hoffman, 149 N.J. at 584). We add that Article I, Paragraph 22 of the
New Jersey Constitution expressly provides that "[a] victim of a crime 21 . . .
shall be entitled to those rights and remedies as may be provided by the
Legislature." Beyond the rights granted to all crime victims, New Jersey law
confers additional rights upon victims of sexual assaults. See, e.g., SAVBR,
N.J.S.A. 52:4B-60.2; State v. Ramirez, 252 N.J. 277, 299-303 (2022)
(detailing the legislatively established rights for sexual assault victims). See
also Chambers, 252 N.J. at 584 ("Our courts have recognized that, in sexual
assault cases, 'the wellbeing of . . . victims demands heightened protection'
because there is a 'likelihood of emotional trauma and mental distress.'"
(quoting D.R.H., 127 N.J. at 259)).
21
Our State Constitution explains that the term "victim of a crime" includes "a
person who has suffered physical or psychological injury or has incurred loss
of or damage to personal or real property as a result of a crime." N.J. Const.
art. I, ¶ 22.
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Considering these basic legislative findings and principles and applying
them in concert with the PDVA's best-interests-of-the-victim factor, we are
satisfied that plaintiff has a protectable interest in attending college without
having to fear future contact with the man who exploited their truncated dating
relationship and forcibly penetrated her against her will. See Hoffman, 149
N.J. at 584 ("At its core, the [PDVA] effectuates the notion that the victim of
domestic violence is entitled to be left alone. To be left alone is, in essence,
the basic protection the law seeks to assure these victims."). That is especially
so considering defendant's persistence in wanting to have sexual intercourse
with plaintiff and the court's acknowledgment that defendant has predatory
tendencies.
We are not suggesting that defendant should be precluded from attending
the college of his choice. Rather, the point is that plaintiff has the right in
these circumstances to know that when she encounters defendant at school or
while socializing with friends, she will be protected by a formal FRO and all
associated enforcement rights available under the PDVA and not just by the
informal scolding the judge gave to defendant at the end of the hearing.
IX.
INHERENT LIMITS ON THE EXERCISE OF JUDICIAL DISCRETION
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Finally, we would be remiss if we did not comment on the trial court's
concluding remark to defendant, announced in the presence of the victim:
"[d]o you understand the break you got today?" That comment is troubling if
for no other reason than it might lead plaintiff to believe that the court's
decision was based on defendant's best interests, rather than hers. Aside from
disregarding the best-interests-of-the-victim factor and the PDVA's
overarching protective purpose, the court's final remark falls short of treating a
sexual assault victim with fairness, compassion and respect. See N.J. Const.
art. I, ¶ 22.
We appreciate the reality that some domestic violence defendants do
indeed get a windfall benefit when, for example, a plaintiff exercises their
prerogative to withdraw their FRO complaint. 22 But it is not a court's
22
Unlike criminal cases that are brought by prosecutors, in civil cases,
including TRO/FRO actions brought under the PDVA, domestic violence
victims as plaintiffs have the authority to withdraw their complaints, in which
event the court has no choice but to dismiss the action. Much has been written
on the circumstances associated with the "cycle of violence" that may induce
domestic violence victims to recant or otherwise dismiss viable claims. See,
e.g., Jane Stoever, Transforming Domestic Violence Representation, 101 Ky.
L.J. 483, 506-07, 523 (2013) (noting that under the "Cycle of Violence" model,
"the abuser's contrition and remorse . . . encourage the survivor to hope the
abuser will change and prompt [the survivor] to stay in the relationship," and
observing that "as many as half of domestic violence survivors" dismiss or
seek to vacate their protective orders); see also C.R. II, 257 N.J. at 158
(Fasciale, J., concurring) (noting that a PDVA FRO is "geared towards ending
the cycle of domestic violence").
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prerogative to extend a "break," either in deciding whether a predicate act of
domestic violence was proven or whether to grant the plaintiff's request for an
FRO. If the facts as found by the trial court warrant an FRO applying the
burden of persuasion, standard of proof, and other governing legal principles,
an FRO should be issued consistent with the foundational principle that the
PDVA is intended "to assure the victims of domestic violence the maximum
protection from abuse the law can provide." N.J.S.A. 2C:25-18; G.M., 453
N.J. Super. at 12. If, in contrast, the facts as found by the trial court do not
establish the grounds or need for an FRO, meaning that the plaintiff has not
carried their burden of persuasion under the PDVA, the application should be
denied and the PDVA complaint dismissed. Stated another way, while we
extend substantial deference to Family Part judges in deciding domestic
violence disputes, that discretion does not include the authority to extend a
break or favor to either party.
In this instance, once the trial court made its credibility findings,
credited plaintiff's testimony, found that defendant committed forcible
acquaintance rape and strangled the victim, and acknowledged the parties
might run into each other at school, the decision on whether to issue an FRO
became perfunctory and the need for the protection of an FRO self-evident.
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We therefore reverse and remand for the court to enter an FRO. We do not
retain jurisdiction.
We conclude by emphasizing that in describing the disturbing facts in
this case, we do not mean to imply that physical violence less severe than the
harm inflicted on plaintiff would not be "sufficiently egregious" to invoke the
perfunctory-and-self-evident principle. The key point is that whenever the
predicate act involves physical violence, the type and degree of that violence is
a variable that must be accounted for under the second prong of the Silver test.
Reversed and remanded for proceedings consistent with this opinion.
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